The road to sonship – Darren Lau

When God chose to have a relationship with us, He knew exactly what He was doing. He knew all the giggling and laughing we would do. He knew all the mess-ups and mistakes we would make along the way. He knew all the times we would cry and break down. And He would look forward to each and every moment with us – knowing that every moment of our lives would be an invitation into a deeper and more meaningful relationship with us.

But even more so, he limits his own strength and knowledge in the moment to truly have a relationship with Him. He chooses to walk with us through every situation of our lives in order for a true love to flow. Where would the true maturity of a relationship be if there was no real dialogue? If there was no process? If there was no pain? Or joy?

In Genesis 18, God had told Abraham that He was going to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah for it’s sin. And Abraham, responds back to the God of the Universe – the One who created him and the worlds – that “Far be it from you! Will not the Judge of the earth do right?” Abraham actually starts talking back and forth with God, telling him not to destroy the city.

God didn’t need to hear it. He could have just destroyed it in a second and have come up with a statement filled with so much wisdom that it would put Abraham back in his place for even standing up to Him. But we don’t see that here at all. We see a genuine dialogue between two friends, a son and a father, a man and his God.

The point I want to make is this – that God, Himself, chooses and delights in being able to limit his own infinite power and wisdom in order to have a real relationship with us. When we pray to Him, He doesn’t come as the all-knowing God with abundant and infinite knowledge of why things work or doesn’t work (even though He can.) No, He comes to us as the Father of our lives and the lover of our souls – to hear out heart’s cry and to talk with us – because a relationship is the entire goal of this life.

And if this is what it means to be a son – to be able to talk his dad and share the pains and joys of the journey together – then I can only assume that being a dad is much like how God interacts with us. The two will always be connected. And as for me, I guess if I really want to be the best dad I can be, I’ll need to be the best son I can be.

Darren Lau – The road to sonship